So pissed & depressed...

I m desperate to conceive a baby boy. To do so I have been reading a lot of online articles and wanted to dtd today as for the first time in last 4 months I could say I know I m ovulating. My husband comes home and showers me with disappointments. For a boy he should eat foods that helps sperm be strong such as carrots, drink black coffe 30 mins prior of dtd, and initiate the sex. He doesn't eat carrots, he is like I don't like black coffee so I m not drinking, I pour the coffee in the sink and had an argument. I feel frustrated and now don't want to dtd. I really really want a boy. Before anyone judge me, I m desperate coz this is our first and we dont have boy in our family from last 2 generations. Please advice does these thing help? Should I care about doing things to conceive baby boy? Any tips plssssssssss