Does it piss you off when..

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I've seen a few different instances on this site that women have made simple statements, stated opinions, or asked a question, and LO AND BEHOLD the holier-than-thou "nurture" mothers crawl out of cracks in the wall feeling it is necessary to exclaim to others "you shouldn't be a mother" or claim that generally some women on this site "shouldn't be allowed to be mothers"...... I'm just wondering if this pisses you guys off as much as it does me. And if you are one of the females that make these statements, could you kindly disclose why you feel that you are worthy of predicting whether another woman's fertility should be attainable or not... You are not God😐.. Settle down.

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Some people don't deserve kids, like those who abuse and murder their children

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Nobody has a right to say that to anybody, I've seen it over and over again and it is one of my peeves about some of the woman on this site

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Honestly, after being a nanny I've learned that every mom does things differently and every mom struggles with insecurities about it. I never understand the moms that want to be "holier than thou". Moms already go through so many questions and doubts and fears about whether they are a good mom so why would you want to add to it by saying something horrible like "you shouldn't be a mom". I just don't get it. I guess all we can do is be the mommas that build all the other mommas up and not tear them down and pray for the Holier than thou mommas....cause Lord knows they need it 😉

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I've gotten that message personally twice and I don't even remember what we were talking about. All you can do is shake your head and laugh.

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Women have many purposes and are capable of anything they want to do. For another woman to tell one that she cannot or should not be a mother is like telling a woman she cannot fulfil one of her many capabilities. I don't believe that it is essential for all women to have babies but if they do, it is nobody's right to tell them that they cannot. How could someone tell a woman she should not be a mother. If she has a vagina it's because she could, that's what it's for....

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No one has the right to say that, in my belief. Though, if a woman is on serious drugs, killing and using these babies, I can see why people feel this way.

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This makes me upset as well. I feel
Like everyone is going to do some things differently, as long as your children aren't in eminent danger then nothing wrong with the way you orient or do things.

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My opinion is that women that treat their children like absolute shit shouldn't have kids..but I'm not gonna sit here & stress about it, cause everything happens for a reason. ( I'm not a mother nor am I TTC )

Does it piss you off when..

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