Am I wrong for this?

Is it wrong that I feel upset over this ... I'm having a baby shower & yes I am over the moon about it & can't wait but it just upsets me at how all of these people that have never, not once in their lifetime spoken to me, asked about my pregnancy, the baby ... demand a invite to my baby shower ... It upsets me because they've all requested to follow/friend me over social media yet never tried sparking up a conversation with me nor ever likes or comments on anything but just follows, & never messages, text me or anything ... I feel like it's messed up. Why wait until you hear that I'm having a shower to wanna "meet" me then. So I'm guessing if I was never having a shower, then meeting me wouldn't have been a option .. Yet I'm suppose to be apart of the family