Help.!
Ok so here's the thing. I'm a 25 year old twin who still lives at home with my family. My parents are very old school and traditional in the way that they don't think the girls should move out before they're married. My dad is pretty lenient in what I do as long as I tell him what I'm doing. My mom is not. If i tell her what I'm doing, she'll try to guilt trip me about it and call a lot while I'm out and ask what I'm doing. She's the my house, my rules type. And I'd never disrespect her by bringing a guy over.
Anyways, like all of us, I made some bad relationship decisions when I was younger and now she "doesn't trust me." I'd get it if I was 15 or 16 but I'm freakin 25.!! I've been sheltered my whole life and now I don't know how to adult. My older brothers have gone off and did what they wanted to and she doesn't tell them anything. My brothers are also lenient and tell me to be careful. I know that, I'm responsible enough. This is where my twin comes in. Her and I have always had each other so we've never been alone. However, because she's always around, I never get privacy and of course that goes along with boyfriend time. So when I tell her that I want some alone time, she gets mad. It also doesn't help that she's a miniature version of my mom.
What I'm trying to get out of this, is how to survive them. They're always so rude to me. It's like they gang up on me and think it's funny but I'm the butt of the joke all the time and I'm tired of it. I'm wanting to move out and I'm working on it but it doesn't seem to come fast enough. I just want some reassurance and guidance. Anything to helps, really.
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