Sexually frustrated!!!

I have a high sex drive unlike my husband. I don't initiate sex bc he 99% of the time turns me down. When we do have sex, a lot (90%) of the time he goes before me and then just leaves me hanging, Unsatisfied. It really pisses me off. I get so mad I cry and I don't want to talk to him or even look at or hear him breathe. Anyone else do this? I don't want to be mad and emotional but it all just comes rolling out and I don't know what to do. I've tried talking ab it but he just gets mad! This is our only marital issue. But it's stressing me out.