Please read and vote for who you think is right in this situation.

My SO freaked out and was super mean and superman because he said I was controlling him. Here's why: he's sick so for some reason he likes to get his index finger and thumb and squeeze his dripping nose so all the boggers can come out. I asked him if he could do it with the napkin, and he says he just wants to do it the way he'eco forgave doing it. Am I wrong for feeling grossed out? He touches everything and doesn't wash his hands. Who's right??