What should I do??

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What do should I do if my husband seems to not want sex as much as I do? I love making love with my husband. I love when we switch roles and love seeing that sexual pleasure I see my body, touch, kisses, ever bring him. Only thing is I do have a high sex drive and he just doesn't want to do it majority of the time. I don't know what to do. Sometimes I think maybe he just doesn't like to do it with me. I don't know. Yes I'm making this because I just tried to initiate sex with him and he just completely shut me down. He's the only guy I've had sex with in my whole entire life. No we didn't wait till marriage to sleep with each other but we are married now. I wish he wanted me as much as I want him sexually...

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My husband is this way as well. There are a lot of factors. Low sex drive, low testosterone, fragile, high stress, etc. When my husband works out, his sex drive increases and stress levels decrease. 
When we were first married, it was the opposite. I was tired from my job and he was wanting to fool around all the time.
We've learned communication is key. He knows when I want to fool around. We have a baby, so it can be tricky to get the timing right. Sometimes it means going a couple days with a super high sex drive, but I know we'll always have sex on the weekend if we don't get it to work during the week.
Talk with him about how you're feeling. He needs to know you're not feeling sexually satisfied and that it's effecting your confidence in his feelings for you.
Just learn where he's coming from. It makes it much easier to work with and to handle if you do need to wait a bit longer than you'd like in between.

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I would suggest talking with him about it. That's really the only way to know what's going through his mind

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Girrlllll you do you! If he doesn't feel like having sex, buy a really nice shower head and get intimate with it real fast.

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