Strip club!

I don't know what to do. I love my husband. We've been married for almost a year. We have always been faithful to one another. He went away this weekend to visit his friend and then he rings me telling me he's in a strip club because his friend wanted to give him a belated stag do. He told me he's paid £75 for a lap dance!!! I did say that I wanted him to go to one before we were married so he could get it out of his system, but a belated stag do a year later? I don't think I'm ok with that at all! I wanted it to be before we were married so that once we said our vows, he would never have a chance to do anything like this again. My issue is I have pcos and finally after a whole year, my clear blue ovulation kit is telling me I'm ovulating. He's coming home tomorrow and we've been ttc so desperately. I might not ovulate again for another year so this is probably our only chance ttc. But I'm just so hurt I don't know if I can sleep with him when he comes tomorrow :( what should i do? How can I get past this? I know he didn't touch any one or kiss anyone or sleep with anyone but I still can't get over it. I wish I wasn't the jealous type but I guess I just am...