Any ladies been cheated on an stayed?

Question

Has anyone ever been cheated on an stayed an they can honestly say things turned out for the better. Gaining trust an having to go through that whole process is a hard thing to do, an the only reason why I'm willing to do it because 4 months ago I found out he cheated he convinced me he didn't in my heart I knew but things were going so perfect again till yesterday when he finally admitted an apologized an all that. I know "once a cheater always a cheater" is pretty famous line, an I know us woman sometimes will always blame the reason on ourself when something like this happens. But I know he's wrong, he knows he's wrong I could 100% be setting myself up to get let down an that's completely on me so no rude comments, but this man has made me the happiest person I've ever been he cheated with a girl that's ran through hoe something easy.'will o ever forget no. But I really am willing to make this work an fix us for the better cause we barley have problems he gave in on a weak patch of our relationship an begged for weeks to get me back. I just want to know if anyone has not regretted what I'm about to do? An it really worked sorry for the little rant

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I can :) about 2 years after me and my husband had moved in together I found out he had been cheating on me with a girl living in the next district. 
I ended things with him, despite him saying he wanted me and I was heartbroken. Our son was only 6 months old at the time and I found things really hard.
Almost 2 months later I started to fall soft again and couldn't help but smile when he came to see our son and made him giggle. 
So I gave him one last chance. He ended his friendship with the girl he cheated on me with and told her he loved me and wanted to be with his family. 
That was years ago now. Our Son turns 5 next month and I can honestly say we're really happy together. It took a long time to build up the trust again but we got there in the end :)

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My boyfriend cheated on me when I was 8 months pregnant and continued cheating on me for months after with the same girl I found out when our baby was a month old. Even while I was in labor he was sitting beside me texting her and sent her pictures of our baby when she was born. After I found out he promised he would stop and I decided to stay at a family members house for a while. While I was there he continued to see her. He eventually stopped and I was stupid and stayed with him and ended up pregnant right away again. Doing whatever I could to keep him. (Didn't purposely get pregnant, but had sex all the time so he wouldn't wander) and things eventually worked out. I still have trust issues and we do argue quite a bit still but things are getting better. We're expecting our 3rd child. Some days I wish I just would have left him. But if I did I wouldn't have my second daughter. Or the baby I'm pregnant with now who I love so much already.

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Yes. But it was sexual, not emotional, and for me, that's more important. On top of that, he came to me about it even though there's no way I would have accidentally found out.  His conscience got the best of him, and that's a sign enough to me that he is a better man now than he was then.

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I was cheated on by one of my exes. We broke up eventually, but for unrelated reasons, and we were together for four years and friends for many years after that. He only kissed another girl (no sex) which made it easier, probably, but he blatantly lied to me about where he was going that night because I'd asked him not to. It was a huge betrayal of trust and it took a long time to come back from that, but in my heart of hearts I knew he was a good man who made a mistake, so I gave it a second chance. In the end, we had a very good relationship until I ended it for completely different reasons.

For the record, this also happened to a good friend of mine. Her boyfriend at the time cheated (just kissing, as far as I know, but also an emotional aspect involved). They worked it out and are now happily married 10 years later.

Any ladies been cheated on an stayed?

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