Cleft Lip/Palate

Any other moms whose babies were either born with a cleft lip/palate or were diagnosed on ultrasound with one? On my ultrasound they found a cleft lip, I now go on the 17th to get a more in depth ultrasound to find out how far it goes into the palate and so on. It's a hereditary cleft, my boyfriend was born with a full lip/palate and his grandmother a palate. All of his blood work has checked out perfect so I'm not necessarily worried about that, but I'm worried about the surgeries and feedings, etc. I'm hoping to find other moms with some advice on it all, especially with feeding.