Stop blaming females

I'm just so irritated by a majority of women on this app, if a man cheats on his significant other with a female who had no idea or even knew about the relationship, why is it that you guys always make her out to be the one at fault, SHE DOESN'T owe loyalty to the other girl, it's the man who's in the relationship wtf! Some of these women who look for help in situations like these are victims too, they were/are inlove with the man before knowing he had a woman in his life, don't attack a female because she followed her heart not her brain! Help her do the right thing instead of shaming her!