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Exactly!!The girl is disrespectful if she knew,But who cares about her, it's him u need to be after
Stop blaming females
I'm just so irritated by a majority of women on this app, if a man cheats on his significant other with a female who had no idea or even knew about the relationship, why is it that you guys always make her out to be the one at fault, SHE DOESN'T owe loyalty to the other girl, it's the man who's in the relationship wtf! Some of these women who look for help in situations like these are victims too, they were/are inlove with the man before knowing he had a woman in his life, don't attack a female because she followed her heart not her brain! Help her do the right thing instead of shaming her!
Funny how ya'll dismiss the man's existence and put all the blame on the female 🙄
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Ma
I think you're the angry one love. Maybe one too many illiterate women messages your husband today. Maybe one got through. Who would know though. They aren't at fault, they did nothing wrong 💁🏻
Ma
You are far too stupid argue with, Nickie. I don't know why I even bothered.
Ma
Nickie I have said that both parties who cheat are to blame. Not just the woman or the man. Both. Can you read?
I've never blamed the other woman unless she KNEW that the man was taken. It's always the mans fault.
Iv
I didn't say it was her fault, I said she was an asshole. A disrespectful asshole
Ni
It's never the other persons fault for falling for a douche, the heart wants who it wants and it takes strong willpower to run
Ni
Yeah but not all women are the same, mostly women with extremely low self esteems are prey to these men and they do and tell them everything they want to hear so they are too caught up to leave
If she knew he was in a relationship, she's at fault too. As is the guy.It's called respect Nickie, something you obviously don't understand, nor have.
Je
you got it right Chelsea
Ma
Exactly right Chelsea.
Ch
I have also without knowing been the other woman and as soon as I found out I sent the woman a heartfelt apology. I had no idea, she thanked me for letting her know and we talked and became friends and both ditched the loser. women should support and empower eachother and part of that is not sleeping with men in committed relationships.
I blame the both of them. You don't get to have an opinion on who I am mad at and not mad at. She may not owe me loyalty but she best respect me!
An
I would never respect you if you can at me like that. If the woman has no idea who you are why tf would she respect you after she technically was cheated on as well and was the side chick but didn't know?
Ni
Respect is earned not demanded lmfao. Gtfoh
Mmm.... If a woman knows a man is taken and screws him anyway, then yes, she is to blame too. . Does she owe "loyalty"... No I guess not. Is she still a home wrecking tramp.... Yup. You don't knowingly fuck someone else's guy, it's pathetic and wrong and makes you a raging douchecanoe.
Ba
Yeah you're part of the problem. Hopefully it never happens to you, I'm sure your attitude would change real fast
Ba
It is the woman's fault. It's called having respect. Do you go up to random people on the street and do something to purposely disrespect them? Doubt it. No one is saying the man is not to blame, but if the woman knows she is just as at fault as he is
E.
douchecanoe 👍👍👍
Lmao sorry but it sounds like you're a side piece . Yes both of you are at fault. It's not cute it's not OK it's flat out gross to be a side chick.You don't owe her respect or loyalty but maybe you owe yourself some dignity. (If the girl knew )He's 1000% at fault no if and or puts. He's to blame but if you stick around after finding out he's taken.... well that's your choice ...not a decent one but ayy
Ni
It doesn't matter what I sound to you but FYI I'm married to a wonderful man and we've both been cheated on, at least we both understand the importance of trust and respect, he doesn't respect enough if he cheats so why fight the other woman?
I love seeing girls talking about beating the other girls ass, like why are you kicking you're man's ass! He's the one who couldn't keep his dick clean.
Gr
oh Tiger, i agree with you, if the other girl knew, she is just as guilty as the guy.
An
I'd never give him a second chance. And yeah self worth is important which is why being the side chick is wrong af
Ni
Why would you give him another chance? I can never.. Sled worth is important and no wonder men don't give a fuck
I always say even if the women knew he was married or in a relationship, it's not her fault, it's the man, because he's the one that owes loyalty,he's the one that is married, or has the so or living with his gf. Because there will always be Skanks, but the man is the one who made the mistake then he needs to be blamed
We
I agree, totally. same thing if the female is the cheater in the relationship
Ni
Omg yes 🙌🏽 thank you girl.. I understand these women.. I've been the one cheated on and left but flyer sitting down with the other woman.. I changed the way I viewed things..
It doesn't make any sense to be upset with the other female anyways.... It's YOUR boyfriend/husband that u should be upset with.! HE is the one that chose to make a commitment to YOU, and HE is the one that broke that commitment to YOU. The other female wasn't shit to you from beginning to end. So why stress over HER anyways.? Especially if YOUR BF didn't tell her that he was in a relationship; makes her think she's the main chick. She never knew she was helping him cheat.! But guess who DID know... YOUR MAN.!
Ni
Exactly my thoughts 😩
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