My so and i have been going through ALOT .He has a very young daughter(4 months old) with his ex GF who has taken very hard that he has moved on and has been making our lives hell. We are basically in shelter in the middle of nyc cuz we moved away from all our friends and family to give our relationship a chance, without the interference of others. As were going out to the store. The police come knocking on our door...she put and order of protection in place..stating that the day he has been harassing her,coming to her house and threatening to take his daughter and that he raped her and all this other stuff.

He has yet to see his daughter and has been going to court and waiting patiently to see her through the court...because of this he might not be able to return to school. He can't even start work yet cuz she has his documents and its adding stress on me cuz we've been ttc through all of this added to the fact that ive been the only one working and supporting both of us since Feb ,we fight ,cuz im unhappy at being here and that i believe he's inconsiderate( doing things like,i leave for wprk mon-frid at 5am and come back at 7pm, recently i started working weekends too and he'll stay inside all day. Eating and drinking then expect me to walk around with him for hours or stay up until 2-3am)...i dont know what to do any more..thanks for letting me rant