Really into spanking??

So here's the thing, I've been in countless sexual relationships, but I've never been with a guy who has done this. Like sure a light tap, but I literally am craving to be in a BDSM relationship of some sort. Spanking though is seriously my favorite bit of the whole deal. I'm not a sensative person, like it takes a lot to turn me on. My breast aren't sensative and I hate light touches cause they just tickle me and that's annoying when you're trying to haves sex. I've always liked the light taps, but they've never been enough. I really want it and I'm not ashamed.