"Surprise" BaByQ

Today is my "surprise" BaByQ for baby Porter! My hubby is throwing it for me (with his moms help lol) I know about it due to a mishap where I was included in a group conversation via text by accident. I don't even know what to wear! How is this even possible? Lol. My nails are gross, I haven't shaved anywhere for weeks, my hair is long and unkept and greasy grossness, my eyebrows look like uneven blotchy caterpillars, and I have NO cute clothes that fit me. I'm going to look like a troll at my own baby shower 😩I've been super nauseous and sore this morning, tired, just gross feeling. I'm 34 weeks with NO energy to get up and figure this nonsense out haha. I'm grateful that he and his family cares enough about me to do this for me ❤️ especially because this is baby #4 and not exactly traditional to have a shower, but I'd really like to crawl into bed and sleep all day. What can I do to get excited about today?!