Quick recap: My "best friend" of 8 years ignored me for 3 months because I can't afford to be in her big wedding. Even on her birthday, no response.

Update: Well I finally heard from her. She asked me to go to a concert without mentioning her silent treatment. So I made it clear I wasn't interested and that she treated me like dirt one too many times. It feels great!

Thank you for the advice ladies. You helped me accept how crappy she is.