Is this wrong or ok? (Sex talk so mature people only)

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So I've talked to my husband about extreme bdsm but we hardly dabble in it because he's scared to hurt me (his ex accused him of rape so he's weary). He's told me multipul times that he doesn't care if I contact other men or women online and flirt/rp to get off whether it be just messages or video like private skype or other sites, he doesn't even care if I became a cam girl. 
Now you may think he's awful but neither of us touch other people and this is why he's ok with it; I have sexual desires he's not comfortable with or never will be but he is the only one who get to physically touch me and the only person I sleep with. Is it wrong for me to pretty much sexy other people even though he doesn't care or see it as cheating?

Accepted Answer

It's your relationship no one's else's . Do what makes you and your hubby comfortable.

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Even if he's okay with it, I'd go with your feelings. If it makes you feel guilty or dirty, don't do it. If it were me personally, I'd be questioning why he was okay with it lol.

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There will always be people who tell you it's wrong or not okay, but you and your husband do behind closed doors is no ones business but your own. I personally couldn't do what you do, most just cause I'm easily jealous, but again it's your sex life. If people want to judge let them, but it's in no way effecting their lives so they're making stress for themselves over nothing.

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That's up to you and your SO to decide. If all people involved agree with it, then no it's not wrong

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That's the dynamic of your relationship.. So it's about how it makes YOU feel. Not us. Lol.

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As long as he's giving you consent, I don't see anything wrong with it. Remember communication is key in these situations, so no one gets their feelings hurt. When you start going behind eachother's backs is when to be worried.

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If you guys are both okay and comfortable with it, then yes it's fine. It seems like you are somewhat unsure about it, before you do anything I would make sure you are 100% comfortable and that he is too. Set any limits/boundaries together, what is okay, what is not, and go from there.

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If he gave you the goahead then it's fine

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I say if he is okay with it then it should be okay. As long as you don't get out of hand with it or replace him with it. I personally wouldn't act upon it though because even though there's a go ahead doesn't mean they are going to be actually comfortable with it when it happens.

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Only you and your husband can define the parameters of your relationship. What works for some doesn't work for others, but that doesn't make one way right or wrong.

Is this wrong or ok? (Sex talk so mature people only)

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