Women whom are pregnant and 40

I'm not pregnant yet.. Ttc my third with new hubby. How are you? Are you always fatigued? Or sickly is it worse ? My last child i was pregnant at 31 i didn't fine till i was like six months i stayed swollen and my legs hurt bad. I weigh more now .. Trying lose weight I'm not making progress as of yet. It's depressing. I'm always tired after work.. So was just wondering how it is pregnant and 40