So very lonely...

So I have to rant a little. For the past few weeks I have been feeling so very lonely. My SO has always been a gamer and I'm pretty used to I suppose, but every day, with out fail he comes home puts on his headphones and pretty much blocks out the world on his Xbox. We share two days off with each other and he seems like he never wants to spend time with me. When he is not on his xbox he is asking someone to come over and chill. I have asked him several times a week to just spend some time with me, and he always gets so defensive. He is always like well what do you want to do?! And if I say I just want to watch a movie and cuddle or maybe we could play a game together, he is always like, "there are no good movies", and "you don't like the same games as me." And it isn't just emotional either. He doesn't want to have sex either, because he says that it is uncomfortable. It's like he doesn't find me attractive at all anymore. He says that he does but actions are speaking louder then workds right now... Idk maybe I'm just being over sensitive.