Possible Depression

I feel like Ive done nothing but mope and cry for the last 3 days. Even at work I am quiet and less sociable when usually it gives me a purpose for the day.

I'm worried about my risk for pregnancy related depression. Im feeling like I might have it. For 2 weeks my appetite isnt what it has been. Im usually craving something in particular the minute my feet hit the floor (5:20 am). Im eating maybe half the amount of food I usually eat in a day. I dont really laugh, I dont feel like talking. My sister has called me twice this week and I just stare at the screen until she hangs up. She hasnt done anything to make me upset.

Me and my husband have been disconnected since I got pregnant. We argue over petty things because I feel like he always gets his way and he doesnt help me around the house. We have NO intimacy or romance. He never takes me anywhere anymore, save the grocery store. I feel like I dont know who I am and I feel every day is the same. I dont know what to do.

Im afraid to tell my doc at the next appointment that I may need a depression screening, because one: my hubsand will be there and two: I work in the military and I'm uncomfortable with having behavioral concerns in my medical record.

Any suggestions??