Out of line?

Question

So I have a almost one month old with my husband & we obviously have a family now but his fucking friend hits him up EVERY SINGLE DAY asking him to come out & chill once he gets off work like ok, sometimes is fine but EVERY FUCKING DAY calling him up to come hang is unacceptable to me! He has a family now, he just got off work like let him be! Am I overreacting or is his friend out of line & doing too much? My husband does go out sometimes but this dude wanting/hitting  him to come out every day after work is fucking annoying to me! Like go get a gf dude!

Answer

Let your husband know how you feel and maybe he will talk to his friend about it. My fiancé has a friend who was very persistent for a while and he basically had to explain to him that he has responsibilities at home each night after work and can't always come out. He respects it, he just doesn't fully get it because not in the same boat.

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Have you told your husband how you feel? Even if your husband did go out every single night with his friend, I don't think you should be mad at his friend. It's up to your husband not to go out so much. If your husband isn't going out every night with this friend than why does it bother you so much? I think it's a silly thing to be so angry about. You could tell your husband that you find it annoying and see what he does about it...but really you can't control his friend only the way you feel about it and it's not that big of a deal.

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It's ok to be mad, but don't give your husband a hounding for it, talk to him rationally and explain how exhausted you must be with a 1 month old and that you need his support x

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His friend should understand he has a baby at home and all but your husband needs to man up and say sry can't I want to go home n see my family maybe another time. Not just your dudes friend at fault husband needs to b an adult and as long as he goes with his friend y would his friend stop asking?

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Oh no hunny, you are the wife and mom. If he wanted to chill wit his buddies he should have waited for the wife and kida aspect of life. I mean as you say, every once in a while is fine but everyday....your right on the nose! Id tell him your feeling left out/ignored and that he should WANT to spend time with his family over his friends. 100%

Out of line?

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