I find it so aggravating when someone tells me to stop buying things for my son and wait until the baby shower. For one I don't have many friends and family where I live so I can't depend on others to buy the necessary things for my baby. Secondly I will buy my son whatever it is I feel he needs. It pisses me off when I am being told what to do and what not to do with my child when the others don't like it either. It's best to keep opinions to ones self if it doesn't involve us or our children. Rant over!