Doesn't love me enough?

Question

My bf and his friends are going on a camp trip including girls. He once kissed a girl before drunk and I forgave him because I love him so much. But now I asked if there was gonna be alcohol and he said yes and that he's planing to get drunk. Idk what to think anymore. I have done a lot for him, including the pain I have been thorough when I forgave him for kissing another girl. And now he's putting himself in that situation again? Please help me and tell me what should I do. He's also telling me to walk away if I am not happy with our relationship.

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Id say just by reading your texts from him, he isn't worth your time. You seem to be in an emotionally unhealthy relationship, and even if you love him you can't put yourself through this. A good relationship doesn't involve anyone proving anything to anyone nor does it include someone saying "if you don't like it then leave" and yes emotionally unhealthy relationships are exactly like this, they act like dicks then say how much they love you. What is your worth? Do you think you deserve to be treated the way he treats you or do you deserve the world; because I think you deserve the world.

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If you don't trust him you shouldn't be with him. You can't try to keep him away from his friends and that 'situation' simply Bc you don't trust him.

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um he can't expect your trust so easily for what he did. hes lucky that you forgave him for that shit. if my bf did that then thered be some revenge shit goin on bc i don't play with that. you have every right to not want him to go.

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He shouldn't be kissing anyone! Drunk or not! You deserve better!

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The way he gets mad and say the rudest shit then a couple hours later he is all like I love you baby, reminds me a lot of my guy. Putting myself in your shoes, I would leave. You forgave him for screwing you over once, now he is putting himself in the situation to do it again... I would just leave at that point. You gonna be home worrying about what he is doing, while he is with his friends doing god know what.

If you don't leave him, then go with him or your just gonna be wondering if he cheated or not. If he says you can't go then tell him, either he lets you go or your leaving him.

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Tell him if he really loves you then not to get drunk. He proved that he can't be trusted with alcohol in his system so don't let it happen. If he wants to go camping then that's fine. But make it clear that he can't get drunk. Why aren't you going with him?

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try seeing if he will maybe not get DRUNK but just drink a little...

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If he loved you so much he wouldn't even go there. If he loved you he would've invited you to go with. Obviously he didn't learn from his past mistakes which shows that he doesn't care. I don't think you should be with a man like him. Especially one who just likes to get drunk.

Doesn't love me enough?

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