It has definitely been a long journey

It has definitely been a long journey. I am just doing a lot of hoping and praying that this one is a successful pregnancy. I already have a 5 1/2 year old son/stepson to my husband. and we would just love another baby right now. we tried about 3 months ago and the miscarriage was not something we expected. not sure why it happened. but I have a gut feeling it was stress. I am doing my best to manage my stress now. just to be sure that everything goes well. I want this baby, and I want to make sure that I can carry. I've had 2 surgeries in my life. one was the c-section to have my son. and the other was a recent hernia repair surgery. now, I have read a bunch of different things about how some women cannot have kids after they have had the surgery and it's best to have all your kids before then, but I just want one more baby. hopefully everything works itself out.