Whole family in Labor&delivery RANT!!!

Lets start off by saying, i have a 6 yr old&ppl in L&D room were my mom,hubby,sister Brenda&MIL(by accident) this time around i dont want as many ppl as they are there just to observe&it doesn't help to see them gasping every 5 seconds while you're pushing! So the ppl i was thinking about having there were, my hubby,mom&1 of my sisters(1 of them was there with my 1st). I told them about my decision of only having 1 of them in there&they got all mad! Saying "why can't we both be there? Aren't we family? Thats bogus!" wtf?! It pisses me off to know that my family is like that. Because they ALWAYS ARE! If you're not there the second they call you you're already a bad sister/daughter. Ugh i just dk what to do!