Transitioning cups for toddler

I've posted this before but I really need help and no bashing me for this. Every child is different I understand but my daughter is 14 months and I've tried every cup possible that isn't a soft spout. I've tried every cup possible from hard spout, semi hard and straw. When she was 6 months old she would take the hard spout but when the teething started it got less and less. I'm getting very frustrated and tired of getting bashed because she uses the soft spout. Please help