What To Do? First time Issues.

Question

This guy wants to have sex. I'm a virgin and he's rely experienced. We're both headed to different colleges and I don't feel pressured at all. But... he said he'd rather buy plan B than use a condom. He's getting tested before anything happens between the two of us. But, would he notice a female condom? I don't want to take any chances but I guess I don't want to ruin the mood. What should I do? Options?

Answer

You should tell him how you feel! You can use other things like spermicide or even just your contraception. If you're gonna give him your virginity he needs to understand you want to take every precaution and if he doesn't want to do that maybe he's not the right guy.. It's all your decision. Xox

Answer

While I have never used it, I have heard that Plan B can be pretty rough on your body. It is not meant to be a first line of contraception/birth control. Without knowing him, that seems risky and insensitive to you and your body, especially for your first time. I'd talk with him, do your research, and decide what is best for you. I think condoms or another form of contraception (pill, etc.) are probably the better route for you and your body/cycle. It sounds like he is just being pretty selfish about things.

What To Do? First time Issues.

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