Partners lack of sex drive?

Question

My boyfriend and I have been together for 3.5 years and I've recently found that he's less interested in having sex. I've asked him about it and he didn't have too much of an explanation, just that he didn't feel like it as much?

We only have sex 1/2 times a month which bothers me. I am understanding and don't pressure him if he's not it the mood but it's hard when we are on two different levels.

We used to have sex usually 2-3 times a week up until 4-5 months ago. 
Has this drastic change ever happened to anyone else?

Answer

my SO has no drive either. but he has never had a drive. sonce the beggining until now he can go long spans and rately intiates it. im sure if i was the aggresser or intiator id get it more. but in regards to him asking for it , its about once a month. we have also at times gone once every 2 months! we will go long spands like that if I dont intiate or ask. to me, being that he is the man its very weird he wouldnt ask more. ive never expierenced that with other men. Im not sure if low drive 1-2 times every month or two is normal for man or not? doesnt seem to be. im in the same boat and im not sure why either. he doesnr really have a reason. says also he doesnt mastrurbate really at all, watch porn or cheat so he swears thats not the reason he just doesnt intiate or want it as much. i wonder if our men have lack of testorone? maybe medical? but if yours wasnt like that at the beginning but now doesnt ask much to me id be careful. that means he is capable but something has changed for him. mine has always been this way since day 1. im not sure what to do :(

Answer

Same boat as well. Seems to be 1-3 times a month and it makes me feel unwanted sometimes and like you, I also do not pressure to have it if he doesn’t want to. But it’s hard cause my sex drive is way more high than his is, in the beginning we definitely had sex more often but since we’ve been together it’s been normal to just have sex that often, maybe 5-6 times MAX in the month, it’s frustrating so I understand. I am also having a hard time bringing this up to him and suggesting we have sex more often but we’ll see how that goes:)

Partners lack of sex drive?

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