Am I in the wrong?

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So the last time my boyfriend and I had sex I got quite frustrated. I believe sex is such an intimate and loving connection between two people. Well soon as we finished having sex, he jumped up and ran over to his phone and started scrolling through it. He hadn't even taken the comdom off yet. He pulled out, cummed, and then ran over and started looking at his phone. I told him later on that what he did kind of upset me and he said I was crazy to believe so. 
Sometimes I feel like he's actually hiding something from me. He's always on my phone. He knows my password, even if I change it, he looks through everything. Yet if I even touch his phone he freaks out....
I'm just really needing some help from someone. Even just someone to talk to and get some advice. Anything helps! 
Thanks!

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My man was like that and I went through his shit when he left the room and found out he had a whole other thing going on with another female so I called her and broke up what they had. I'd find out his password and go through his shit.  But that's just me lmao

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Sorry but do not go through his shit. That's a breach of privacy.

Sit him down seriously and talk to him about it. Discuss how you feel because it is legitimately affecting your relationship and could have negative consequences if he isn't honest with you. 
If he has nothing to hide he will provide valid reasons for his actions and maybe let you look through his phone if he is with you, if you really want to.

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I think there's something to be said about paying attention to your instincts. I know its easier said than done, but i feel like us women are socially raised to be more aware of the ppl around us than men are because we're expected to accomodate other's (mostly men's) needs before our own. For better or for worse we end up with what ppl like to call a woman's intuition. Thats not to say he's 100% for sure cheating, but he's definitely giving you reasons to believe he is, so dont ignore those feelings and do something about it.

I would go with the talking to him rout because if you cant trust him enough to have a conversation with him about your feelings then why be with him at all.

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Go through his shit find out what he's hiding! Or else don't waste your time

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Omg .. I went through the same . He had access to everything on my phone . The ONE time I went through his .. I found out he had another gf .. 😔

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Yeahh i would be so deep in his messages right now 💀 lmao but seriously if you feel like he's hiding something and he's always jumping to his phone than yeah he may be hiding something .

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He's definitely hiding something. If he cries when you are upset with him and makes up excuses to not talk about things and won't even let you on his phone... Big problem. You either need to go through his phone, or make him open it himself. You need to step it up or your relationship will go down and you will be hurt.

My boyfriend and I don't look through each other's phones, we might take it and play a game or look at our social media accounts but we both know we have nothing to hide. You need that trust.

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If your partner has nothing to hide he wouldn't care about privacy. My partner and I use each other's phones all the time for random stuff and know each other's passwords. Think you two need a serious talk !

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