People need to stop...

People need to stop commenting on when my baby should be born! I am almost 36 weeks and everyone feels the need to tell me to keep my legs closed or try to hold out until whatever date. Like I am actively trying to have her early or something! I am doing everything I can to prevent that! I have been having labor contractions (not braxton hicks, determined by multiple doctors) for over a month and been told she may come a few weeks early. Now everyone has something to say about that and it's downright hurtful! We are not incubators that can just be turned on and off, sometimes we have no control! As long as she's healthy, I don't care where or when. But people constantly advising me like I have a say makes me feel like I am already failing as a mother! It's hurtful and is not as simple as it sounds. I hate people at this point, they make me want to cry. Like this is all my fault and I am doing something wrong to cause this.

Is anyone else here feeling the same?