I've been really nervous about having sex with my husband because we had an early miscarriage in April. However, my hormones have been out of control lately and I couldn't help myself. We just had sex and it was soft and gentle, but absolutely mind-blowing!! Pregnancy hormones are the best, if you are nervous don't be, just do it!! Also, very light spotting when I went pee after from when I wiped but it stopped almost immediately. Have fun ladies!! 😉