Should I worry?

Question

So my bf of a year now really wants to have anal sex. I DO NOT want to. It makes me feel so uncomfortable. I even tried it once and I had to be drunk in order for me to want to try something different like that. He said he had anal sex with his ex, I asked if he liked it and he said no bc it wasn't with me. So that made me feel good but at the same time he wouldn't keep asking for it right? The thought of him having anal sex with his ugly ex disgusts me enough. It actually makes me feel like I'm not good enough in bed as to why he keeps asking for anal. Even tho our sex life is really good, is there any reason to worry?

Answer

If you're not comfortable with it, then don't do it. If he doesn't respect/care about your boundaries, then he is a dick. A man that truly loved you, would never make you do anything you weren't okay with.

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Ugh, anal hurts. I'm told some girls like it, however it really wasn't for me and it's an incredibly unpleasant. I felt completely humiliated afterwards and wanted to cry. I had to take a shower because my butt was leaking and just got depressed because of how humiliated I felt. I let my boyfriend try it just to please him but I regret it completely and he felt horrible for making me feel pressured. Girl if you don't want to do it, don't do it. Honestly it's not worth it, instead give him great head ( my boyfriend said using ice cream is a great sensation) and maybe he'll forget about it

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You don't have to do anything you don't want to do, EVER! If he can't accept that, then he's not the one for you. Respect and care for yourself before you worry about what he wants. & if he can't let go of his past with his ex, he simply just isn't worth your time.

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There's nothing to worry about...I like anal but u have to get used to it, because it does hurt. I lay down flat because I feel like that helps a bit. Only do it if you feel comfortable. I only do it maybe once or twice a month but I do turn my guy down here and there just because I don't wanna feel the pain. But sometimes I am into it I just have to be horny enough.

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No matter how long you've been together, no matter how many times you've said "yes" before or things you've tried, you still NEVER have to do anything you are not enthusiastically into. You deserve for him to respect that and not push something you really don't want. You have every right to say no, especially when it comes to your body!

Answer

You shouldn't worry too much . Maybe he just wants to try something new with you.

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