Unhappy

If you were a SAHW (no children), how far would you go to meet your husband's needs on a daily basis? My husband works 30-40 hours a week in an office and when he's home after work he makes me prepare him 1-3 meals throughout the evening. He also makes me get him drinks any time he craves it. I'm starting to feel annoyed because he doesn't do anything for me except pay our bills. He just doesn't show if he's thankful for the things I do for him. I put effort to keep the house clean but I don't get anything in return. Not even sex. I can't remember the last time he even touched me. I asked him on two different occasions why he doesn't want to finger me and both times all he said was "because no". That just makes me not want to initiate sex or touch him. Yesterday we had an argument and I told him that next time his mom should come over to do his laundry and meals because I've felt like I work for him rather than his wife. Would you expect anything in return from your husband?