Abusive people?

I'm honestly shocked at the amount Of people on this app that are always so quick to say that they'd "beat the sh*t out of", "murder", "punch/slap/hit", "give an ass whooping" to their So, child, partner etc. I know sometimes it's just said to express anger but seriously, I don't think that's healthy behaviour in the slighest. If you can't handle situations without resorting to violence or at least threatening it, you should probably seek some help for that asap? Cause I know for sure that if it were mostly guys on an app saying the exact same things about their wives and girlfriend, the backlash would be MASSIVE, and those same people who do it here would be so damn quick to start screaming abuse :/