How long did you wait after giving birth to have sex??? My tubes are tied... no birth control needed butt I did sperience internal bleeding for 12 hours after they tied my to they had to go in and take two liters of blood out and give me a blood transfusion with two pints of blood sex is a great stress reliever I need to relieve some stress... so in the end I have the small incision below my belly button for the original surgery of them tying my tubes then they had to go back in and cut me like a C-section to get the blood out and they had to take inches of my tube out