So when I was 16, I started dating this guy. We were together for almost 2 years. The problem was, he would get mad over nothing, and hit me. I told my mom, and she laughed and called me a liar. Later down the road, I wouldn't sleep with him, so he held me down, and attempted to rape me. I punched him in the face. He took off and left me stranded for over 2 hours with no way to get help. Eventually, when I was 18, I left him. He threatens to kill him self. Put himself in the hospital and everything. Basically made me be around him just so he didn't die. Which might I add he really did try to kill himself. It wasn't just something he was saying. So one day he picks me up from work, and pulls a knife on me in the parking lot. My manager calls the cops, but by the time they got there, the knife was gone and no reliable witnesses because all anybody was was him yelling at me. I completely cut off all contact, and had him banned from my work legally. My mom laughed at me and said I deserved all of it.

Well, now I'm married, at 20 years old, and my mom invites my ex over weekly for dinner, and even holidays. She still says I'm lying about everything. 2 of my sisters believe me, and 2 of them don't. So having 3 people against me, I can't even be around my family because of him. I'm currently living out of state with my husband who's in the Marines, but he's getting out and we're moving back home. I just don't know what to do. I want to be able to spent time with my family, but I can't be around my ex.

Edit: I forgot to mention that my mom kicked me out over all of this, and refused to meet my husband, so all they know him by is pictures. She knew his dad before he died, and his dad wasn't a very good person, so everybody automatically assumes that my husband is a horrible person. 

Also, my husband is talking about maybe moving to. A different state, just so that we can start our own family, and not bother with everybody in my family, but it hurts so bad knowing that my dad and 1 sister are the o my ones who actually care about me, and how I feel.