Chivalry

So, my question is what are your guys's take on men having to "treat" once you are dating. For example need nails hair money allowance etc. my mom and I debates on this all the time she feels that if a guy is going to have sex with you the least he can do is do your nails . But I can't help but feel it's like putting a price on me. In my past relationships I was mostly the breadwinner and didn't ask hated feeling like I owe someone something . I hate this confusion I see if a guy met me with these amenities wHey does he have to be responsibility but on the same note ive learned you have to show a guy your maintenance level I guess I have no problems paying clearly lol I did everything in my past relationship and I grew up around complete assgoles which made me believe tht a guy courting ibis exchange for sex help me