Do you use Blow Jobs as a tool to get something (non-sexual) in return?

Question

My coworkers use blow jobs to get their man to do something their man doesn't really want to do, like go to a special store, look at an apartment/house they don't like or even threaten no bjs after the wedding if he smashes cake in her face, etc. I actually enjoy giving my man head and would never use the promise of a bj to get him to do something. Just wondering where other women were on this.

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I'll joke about it. Like "we should do this (insert whatever I really really want to do)" and if he's like Meh and I want to bad enough I'll do the pretty please, sugar on top, etc etc. And finally like "what about a blow job" and he'll jump on it haha. But it is never really a serious "I'll withdraw blow jobs" or I will give you one blow job in exchange for ___" I don't like using it as like a monetary bargain chip. But I also don't really like giving blow jobs... so if I am going to do them it will be because I feel like it and not because I made a deal or feel obligated.

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Lol my fiancé and I have a standing arrangement of BJ for a back massage. I love back massages, and he loves Bjs so we just decided that those would be the exchange. No complaints from us! 😂😂😂

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It's just funny cause there's 9 of us in our office, and 2 of us don't use it as a way to "get our way."  My SO just shook his head when I told him about our conversation.

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Wtaf! That's a sick relationship.

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I just you know, ask him.

Do you use Blow Jobs as a tool to get something (non-sexual) in return?

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