How to orgasm?

Question

So today I had sex with my boyfriend for the first time in 2 months. And he enjoyed it stupendously. But, I really didn't. I told him last night that I never finish when we have sex. And he told me that all I have to do is ask for something that'll help. So I agreed and we had sex. But... I faked my orgasm so he'd feel better about himself. I told him afterwards that i didn't orgasm and I was kinda upset but that it wasn't his fault. I just can't finish during sex. Am I doing something wrong? Or is he? How can I orgasm during sex???

Answer

First, you have to stop faking your orgasms then telling him afterwards that you didn't orgasm lol, kind of brutual without intending to be.

In addition alot of girls can't orgasm from penetration, either you or he can try to play with the magic bean of pleasures.

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To be honest, it takes 2 people to Orgasm you can't just depend on your partner to orgasm. You have to move too and not let him just do all the job and you Lay there like a Mummy 😁

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I have the same problem. Been having sex for over a year and still nothing. Just keep trying and try your best to clear your mind. Thinking about it during makes it worse!

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Most people orgasm more from clitoral stimulation so maybe ask him to focus on that for a bit!

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It could just be that you aren't as relaxed and you're too tense or you might enjoy foreplay more than penetration. Sometimes I don't orgasm to penetration but I will to kissing/biting etc.

And yes, don't fake it then tell him afterwards that's hard on anyone lol. Just fake it till you make it, don't shut down his man hood.😂

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Are you actually completely comfortable and relaxed when having sex? If not orgasm is extremely difficult. Do you ever start out when you are feeling frisky(If that ever happen. If not that is okay)? If you aren't really in the mood sensation will be less intense, and only having sex because he wants it isn't a healthy way to go about things. Sex should always be mutually pleasurable. Do you orgasm from masturbation? Or have you not ever masturbated before? You may just have to talk to him about having a session dedicated to your needs and finding what you like.

How to orgasm?

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