😭😭😭 So disappointed

While speaking to my husband about me going into labor which will be some time this weeks he tells me that he works Saturday and Sunday and that if I could wait. I was so surprised and said wait for what!!! To have the baby? His answere was yes... Wth... Is he serious I told him the baby is gonna come when she wants not when I want. His answere was I have to work (his side job on the weekends). I told him ok you know what go, go to work and if the baby comes and your not there it's fine just don't send anyone from your family to be there when I'm in labor the only person I want there is my mother that's it. I was so furious and he as well was upset because I told him I don't want his family there, and he started yapping about how he was gonna cancel his event for the weekend. My response to him was do what you want idk why your planning events if you know that baby is due anytime this week. Idk if he dosent understand how important it is for a girl in labor to have their husband in the hospital with them at the time of their child's birth, I've talked to him about it already and he just doesn't seem to get it. I've been crying ever since we had this argument I don't even know what to do or say.😭😭😭.
(Note his weekend job is being a Dj. So he has a lot of control over his schedule but he's not willing to change anything. I'm not asking for him to be with me just in case I'm asking him to be there when the baby is born but he prefers to just go to the hospital once the baby is born. Instead of him bieng in the delivery room he thinks it's fine for his mom to be there and that that will be fine)