UGH MEN ! Drive me crazy

So I am married and I know as a married woman you have duties to do. Well my husband is a bit controlling and has a temper. He expects everything to be done how he wants it when he wants it and if it's not he will have a fit. I also get told I won't take you to your job I'll take your phone away and you can walk to work and back. I mean okay yes I depend on you but I am your wife not your daughter. I don't know how to deal with this situation anymore I can't speak or say anything against him because I am always wrong.