Annoyed

Should it bother me that my bf doesn't want me and his bm communicating? I don't understand why we can't I'm due any day now and she wants to meet me and my child etc so why would I not communicate wit her. Idk if he thinks he's going to be bringing my baby around mfs without me being present but it's never happening .. I also never am included in knowing when they're supposed to be meeting up to he can meet/ his daughter. ( he only found out about her a little while ago) and only ever met her at court.. But apparently they've been face timing and what not ... I just don't think it's fair that he excludes me from certain parts of his life.. If we're together and you plan on marrying me one day I should be included in every aspect of your life. And I'd be damned if I'm spending my money on his child support for a child he doesn't want me around or to give to a woman I've never met and can't have contact with.. She still text me and is nice and I don't think there's anything there anymore well not all the time sometimes I get bothered and worried but I just don't like any of this and it's not fair to me I don't think...