I'm ready...

I'm ready for a relationship, but I never seem to get a good guy when I date one. I want to get married, and have more kids (already have a 7yr old daughter). My last relationship was an abusive one and I left as soon as that started. I'm afraid to get hurt, emotionally. I've talked to other guys thinking they might be the one and they end up the one to say "I'm not ready for a relationship" I stick around thinking if we hang out more and get to know each other more, they'll be ready, but it hasn't happened. What could possibly be wrong with me? I don't go crazy on them if they hang out with their friends, or if they take forever to reply, nothing like that. I hate clingy so if anything, that's a plus. But still IDK 😔