have you ever

Have you ever been told by your husband or wife or spouse that they never felt in love with you in your whole relationship until now?
If so do you feel as if it was all a lie before because they made you feel and like if they were in love with you or they used to tell you that they were in love with you?
If so how do you get over that feeling like if everything was a lie before and stop letting it bring you down since Both of you are in love with eachother now?
If not than what was your reaction