The struggle of marriage

I have been with my Husband for eleven years and married to him for two. I always motivate him and help him through his struggles. I am very good to him and I really feel unappreciated. I recently asked if we could upgrade our wedding rings and he is dragging his feet on the matter. I never ask for much and I saw this ring that I love so much. I have helped him to purchase his new car and he wanted a motorcycle a few months back, which I helped him with. I love him dearly but, I noticed that if he don't want it then it doesn't matter to him. I never ask for anything but, a new ring he could pay it off in no time. I really feel like when he wanted things for himself he went out and got it. I don't know how to address the issue and I don't want to sound selfish. We pay the bills together. He's not doing it alone. I help him 80% cause I make a little more. I don't want this to be a problem for us. I would love to let it go but, all these years I haven't asked for much. Some flowers would be nice every once in a while. I feel like they just stop caring after a while and I'm afraid the romance will die. Any advice would help. Thanks in advance.

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