HELP!! OPINIONS! PLEASE!
So my ex and I broke up about two months ago because he wanted to see what else was out there but wanted to stay friends which I wasn't okay wth and it really crushed me. I stayed in touch with him for some time and even saw him here and there even though I shouldn't have. Well my mom saw him outside my place the other day. Gold him off, basically said she knows he is playing games with me and that if he loved and cared about me like he says he does he wouldn't be doing this to me. All he could say was that he loved me but can't be with me. His reasons were leaving me changes daily just now its he loves me and likes to hang out with me just likes being alone. Anyways after my mom spoke to him he just drove away and had nothing else to say. I know my mom crossed the line and shouldn't have but that was out of my control and none of my feelings. He texted me last night asking me for my address to send me my birthday gift, should I give it to him!? I mean I don't understand why he got me one because that's just a tease
**He just texted me last night saying
I love you
Than
Heartbroken
So I said yeah me too it didn't have to be this way
He went on saying basically how I don't deserve him
And told me he still wanted me to have this gift because it will help me and I was like nope don't want it take it back or whatever he said fine than proceeded to wish me luck and tell me he loves me and thanked me for the beautiful times and that he'll see me on day like fuck you don't start out testing me all sad and shit telling me it wasn't fair and it was just bad timing for the both of us and than proceeded to tell me you shouldn't have gotten back with me even though we were better than ever than blame it all on me. I feel like my mind has just been fucked with this whole past year and I told him that. He said we can talk this week if I need to be like nooo everything is clear to me now
I just feel so mean for telling him I question his true intentions and feelings about me and I feel like I have been mind fucked this whole past year
But how else am I supposed to feel!?
***Well Tuesday he expected me to meet him so he could give me closure but I'm only free tonight so if you don't wanna talk don't contact me again when I didn't ask for it after telling me he wanted me but we aren't good for one another and he needed to work on himself. I of course came back with if you wanted me you would be with me I know you say you don't know how to adjust in life without the person who means the world to you but how do you think I feel?? It's not easy for me. And added if he wanted me we would be together helping one another grow while encouraging. One another just as we always have. So I didn't go for closure Tuesday night and Wednesday am I got A text saying I told you I was free last night please don't contact me for months or I will block your number. I told him no problem. Was any of that wrong of me!? Like am I the one causing all the pain!?!
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