I had been trying to conceive for 3 months when I got my bfp. I was extremely happy, it felt like it took a long time but we knew we were blessed when it only took 3 months. A week and a half later I begin spotting and go to the ER and they tell me I have an ectopic pregnancy. I was given shots to stop the growth of my baby. This is the hardest thing I've ever had to go through. I would never wish this on anyone, don't over look spotting it could be something serious. I just wanted to vent a little and stress not thinking that spotting is normal. It may be sometimes but others it's the end of something amazing.