Need advice

Ok I been with my baby daddy for 9 years we break up i lived to ca for two years we hv a 3 year old together we whr each other first real love bf and gf had our first bby together my family thinks I shouldn't go but my heart tell in me go I cry thinkn we been thew so much together thew ups and downs even ehn we didn't hv place we stayed strong may ed it i still love him and care but my family sayn this and that thinkn it's not gonna wrk gas anyone gone thew same thing plz tell ne