MIL rant.. don't know if it's just the hormones or if I'm right

So My DD is in 9/5. MIL was supposed to fly in on the 5th but ended up coming early due to thinking I was guna give birth on the 30th. Since she's been here, I've been so irritated the past 3 days on the suffocation. I guess it was really important for my SO to have his mom here for his sanity so I didn't really care, but I can feel her high energy about every little thing i do. I'm having a home birth and she already freaks out about every little thing that happens to me. If I make a noise because baby is on my sciatic nerve, or have a little BH contraction. I can't have high energy at all when I go into labor for a home birth. She is a former nurse so that does not help. I've been pretty rude lately, trying my best not to be and my SO is getting upset with me saying she's only trying to help.. I feel like my baby would have came already if they were putting exact dates and times on her coming out, and if they weren't rushing her. I feel rushed because she's here waiting and nothing has happened yet, so everyday she's asking me how I'm feeling and insisting on me getting my butt up to go walking or swimming.. Yet she won't let me do anything for my self like put away my dishes. She even filled out my Jury Duty paper work to send in. I have lived independently my whole life, no even my mom has touched my stuff or filled out papers for me since I was younger then 15! I also take care of my grandpas matters and needed to do his as well as mine together... I offered to baby sit my neices and nephews last night 2 girls 2 boys youngest is 3. They're CRAZY kids. I don't mind and I can handle them because I'm not too easy going, anyway, got them all sleeping by 930 last night and this morning, I work up at 730 hearing them bouncing off the walls because MIL gave them doughnuts for breakfast. @7...!!! Really?!? We already have a lot of food in the refriderator, and well we live in an apartment complex where noise travels easily. I'm so irritated and stressed since she has been here.. I can't even get along with my SO.. I'm starting to get worried about the future because my SO plans for her to move in with us in the next year or so. 😩 I just can't imagine what she's guna give my daughter that I don't agree with. I'm not a very direct person, especially when it comes to important people to people I love. I've been having BH contractions all night and now morning due to how much stress I am feeling. 😑 I just wish things were easier. I think I'm over reacting but I can't tell my stress I'm feeling that.

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