Husband Rant-Long Sorry 😩

So my hubby has been pretty great throughout this pregnancy.  I had realistic expectations as far as the nature of his work, his likes and dislikes (you will not find this boy offering up back/foot rubs) etc.  he has actually attended more doc apts than I thought he would be able to.  Last night we were talking about my appt that is today, I am 39+2.  He has known about it for a week,  and overbooked clients today.  He was naming a bunch of his client friends who could take me....I'm like these are your friends, I said I really wished he would take me cause we may talk induction dates and I'm going to ask to have my membranes swept....sometimes that makes you feel crampy and yucky right away.  Now I have two teenage sons from a previous marriage where I had this done and I went into labor within days of both.  I told him this and he became so flustered and was like "we never talked about this, a procedure that could make you go into labor that day or with in days!?!??" He was completely bugging out, then he said, "can't you go back on Friday and have this done, or next week? (my due date week) I have my schedule really light". I got really pissed at this point.  Dude, you've had 39 weeks to get ready for this, I am SICK of being preggers, and DO NOT want to go overdue!!!  Then he said, "why don't we just stick to asking if they will induce you on your due date?"  I said cause I would rather not be chemically induced if possible.  I was so angry at this point, I couldn't even look at him. Like NOW you get picky about when your daughter comes earthside???  Forget it.  I just won't do anything I guess.  Wait it out another week. I will have my friend drive me and get my membranes swept next week.  I'm just so disappointed in his apprehension and worrying more about work at this point SO late in the game.  Am I overreacting?