Not enough sex to get pregnant...

Well...here I am about to turn 34 in a few months and I've been with my husband for 5 years. He is a great person, provides, hard worker, takes care of me, the only thing not good is the sex. We hardly have sex. We are a military couple so that has put a strain on our relationship. He is also the type that can only have sex when and where its proper. Always in a bed, missionary and never touches my body to initiate sex only by saying...lets have sex. Not good at foreplay no matter how many times I give him pointers. He just doesn't have that strong manly desire to have sex and I miss that about a guy. I want to feel desired and have a guy who wants to be adventourus and have sex on a hike or anything random! I hate when I initiate sex he can't stop what he is doing to do it. We talk about having kids but a part me fears that sex will really not exist once that happens. I wish I could be the girl who gets pregnant by accident because they have so much sex. I don't know if I can continue this kind of lifestyle. We discuss this issue but nothing really changes and then before you know it years go by. Would you all stay or divorce?